Time to update

OK, it really is time for me to update this blog. I log in everyday to look at all the updating everyone else has done, and yet, I dont take the time to update mine. And I am tired of looking at the same old thing. So, here goes.

Since my last post, I have started selling Scentsy, made it through Christmas in California and New Years, a round of colds, An ear infection for Bella, a case of fake Strep for Sydney, a Sinus infection for Don, a dentist appt and the Inaugeration that took place today.
Our life has not slowed down one bit since the holidays, and I would not trade it for the world.

Here is a typical day in our life.

Up at 5 am. Get kids breakfast, get them dressed, teeth brushed, bag packed for Syd to go to school and bag packed for Bella to go to daycare. While they are eating/watching cartoons, I am showering and getting ready for work. Don gets dressed, gets them their medication and out the door he goes. Once I am ready, I grab my coffee, drop them at daycare and head into my full time office job. I work from 7-330 or 4, Don works the same hours, give or take a few. then it is pick the kids up, make dinner, do homework, baths and bedtime. Catch up on laundry, do the dishes, prepare lunches and dinner for the next day, fold some clothes, place a Scentsy order, read a chapter in whatever book I am reading and then go to bed to start all over. If time, check Facebook, the blog and email. No wonder I cant find time to update my blog.

Tonite was the same routine, but the kids were fighting more than usual. I overheard them in Bella's room shouting at each other. It went like this:

Bella: " I hate that"
Sydney: "Why?"
Bella: "Because, I hate that" (and throws something)
Sydney: Also throws something
Bella: "Oh my God"
Sydney: starts laughing
Bella: Breaks out in laughter too

How can you not love a fight that doesnt turn into them crying and tattling on each other. It was nice.

They are sleeping now as 5 does come pretty early and they get up at the first sound of my alarm.

So, that is about all with us for now. Hopefully, I can make a record and post again before the week is up :)

Thankful part 2

Wow, I hope everyone had a fantastic Thanksgiving. We were very busy with many things. My husband and I both had a 4 day weekend so we planned a trip to Bend once Thanksgiving was over to spend some much needed family time together.
If you dont know, Bella was diagnosed with Asthma 3 weeks ago and we have been battling what meds to put her on and what will help her cough so we all can get some rest. The first medicine they tried was singulair which she is still on and it worked great. But only for a few days. That is when they decided that she needed an inhaler. Albuterol was added. That quit working so a steroid was added. The only problem is, the pharmacist told us we did not need a spacer so because of that, Bella ended up ingesting most of the inhaler instead of it going into her lungs and she became sicker than a dog while we were in Bend. So, instead of playing all weekend in the snow, we were taking care of her in a hotel. Poor Syd didnt get to do anything, so we will have to make it up to her soon.
Anyways, I took her off that steroid and let it work its way out of her system and then Monday night we started all over with the coughing. Yesterday, the doctor called us and said she should have never been on the first steroid because it is not for anyone under 4 and she is only 2. They now have her on Symbacort and it is working well. She ate double of everything today and has so much energy and is NOT coughing. I am so thankful that she is ok and that there are knowledgable doctors out there that listen and help.
So, that is where we are at now. The kids are already asleep and I am headed that way myself, but here are a few pics of our few minutes in the snow in Bend this last weekend!

Im a bad Blogger

I have been gone a while from blogging....it seems like life has just taken over - literally everything. Our house was so messy, we took this weekend and re-organized EVERYTHING. We tried to deep clean and d-clutter everything in sight. I can say that we did well on the kitchen and living room. Redecorated a little and moved things around. As the holidays are starting to approach rapidly, Im trying to do too many things and what I really need to do is slow down and enjoy every moment.

I have to say that alot of blogs that i read really inspire me to decorate and get into the spirit which I have been bad at doing in the past. The kids are really into the holidays this year as they understand what it is all about. Last week I visited a store called Real Deals in Corvallis and found an awesome sign that reads, "Thankful hearts gather here." I hung it on my mantel so it is the first thing we see everyday. It really inspires me to stay positive and be thankful for everything, including my daughters Asthma which she was just diagnosed with.

I didnt really want to hear that she has Asthma, she is only two. But, the thankful part to it, is now I dont have to run to the doctor at every little cough and wonder why it hangs around for 4-5 weeks when she has no other symptoms. Now, we know what to expect and what to do for her. That is a blessing instead of always questioning what was wrong with her.

So, that is all for now. Time for us to have dinner and finish this mess that was created in order to be more organized !

Blessings

Can I say, WOW?!! As busy as we have been, we have been abundantly blessed.
A little history so you understand. One year ago, my husband was laid off from work. He was home for 4 months with our girls while trying to look for a job, trying not to think about how he was going to provide for our family, trying to be our rock while I worked and also tried to figure this all out too. The first blessing was that he was able to cash out what retirement he had and that paid our bills for 2 months. We then were at a point we qualified for WIC and this is our last month - they certified us for a year because we were at the income qualifications. The first blessing of the new year was that he was able to get on at the hospital where I work which at the time we did not know what great things that would bring. He has been working there for 10 months and we have had our struggles. There have been sacrifices of him having to work weekends just so we can afford part time daycare and gas. We have commuted on all the days we could together, and done as much as we could to make our schedule normal when we were all together. And the entire time I kept praying, asking God to keep taking care of our family. Whille Don was off, we still had a roof over our head, food to eat, and warm clothes to wear. Times were tight, but we have been so thankful to just have that. As I have prayed, things have gotten rough at times, but we have already been taken care of. Well, last week my husband became the Assitant Manager of the department he was hired in. Because things have been tight, we have alot of bills to catch up on and the kids were in need of some clothing that we have not been able to buy. Well, two different people from my work, randomly asked if we needed clothing and both girls got some hand me downs, which are like Christmas for all of us. Of the things we received, there were dresses in them, which is another thing I wanted to get for them so they could wear them to Church. It was just so much - almost like overload. God is Good- and is taking care of our family in so many ways. I just wanted to share those blessings:)

For Jill, I love the Barnes Yard. Sorry I didnt participate, but that is great. Any ideas for us?? Williams House seems so plain - which we are not, but I didnt really put alot into it when I started my blog.
For Melanie, Love that you are current on your blog. Little Nae Nae is a doll - love her pics.
For Jasmine - Preston is so adorable and a fan is the best white noise there is - our kids cant sleep without it and they sleep better with it and then we dont have to be quiet:)
For Natasha - you need to update your blog :)

For me - everyone is asleep and I am catching up on Greys, ER and Army Wives. This week has been so crazy busy that we have not had a chance to watch anything, so that is what I am doing now all alone :) Mommy time is good. I should be doing laundry or something, but relaxing is the best energy booster.

First Open House

Tonite was Sydney's first open house at her school. I was rather excited about this because there are days that I feel so out of the loop with what Syd is doing. If you have kids, you know that they dont tell you everything even if they do talk non-stop. I was hoping that by going to this I could see what she does during the day as well as find a way to stay in contact with her teacher.
While we were in her classroom listening to her teacher explaining what they do, she asked if anyone had any questions and Sydney raised her hand. I was anticipating that she might ask her teacher to talk about something great she did in class. Much to my surprise, she caught me off guard. She says, " I wanted you to ask my mom what she did." I looked at her and said, "what?"
She looked at me and said, "what do you do mom?" I had no idea what she was talking about. She then said, " What do you not do, mom?" My mom does Not sing me to sleep at night." So, there I was stunned, blushing and the room of parents was laughing at her comment of what I, as a mother did not do. It was too much.
We then got to meet her best friend Lisi that she has had since school has started to then find out that she lives down the street from us so now we know where she lives.
We got a tour of where the gym, library and music room were and as the open house came to an end and Sydney walked her sassy self out of the classroom, I managed to get an email address of her teacher so I could be kept more in the loop other than through my 5 year old. It was an interesting evening :)

Jill is right

Ok, Jill this post is for you. I got a kick out of your blog comment tonite. Where do you find the time and if you dont have a computer, how do you update your blog?
My time seems so stretched thin - really thin this week. Bella had her tubes put in Monday morning. What they dont tell you is how horrible it is. They say, "oh, it takes ten minutes" and they fail to tell you that after you get there at 630 to check in, your dr could be on call and show up 2 hours later to then bump you because they felt like it. So, our 7 am surgery happened at 9 and then we were there 2 more hours because Bella was so disoriented and every noise hurt her since she has not been able to hear for the last 18 months. her ears were full of infection. to add to that, Sydney has had homework all week for school and I feel like a bad mom sometimes because I dont have the energy to do the homework. But I make myself do it since all she wants is my attention. Then to add to that, I realized that I had so many piles of laundry to get done since I have neglected that for a while. Anyways, my energy leaves me by 7 pm and i forget to blog. But, I will agree, I like reading other people's blogs and love the new posts....I just need to work harder at mine. So, Jill, I will work harder at it for you!!:)

Can life get too crazy?

Just when I think I will keep up on something, like my blog, life takes over and every hour of the day seems to be filled up. My friend Melanie was in labor last time I updated anyone and since then, she has had her baby girl, my oldest child started Kindergarten, My youngest child got an ear infection and is now scheduled for Tubes, I have been vomited and coughed on, spent 2 hours in the ER, Played tag with the school bus and school personel and been to the doctor twice and pharmacy three times to get meds. I am surprised I am not insane yet.
Honestly, this seems to be how my life is every week. If the kids are not sick, or the laundry has not overflowed, then there are bills due, grocery shopping to get done, or tv to catch up on. I have not really gotten into TV much this summer since A - there is nothing on, and B - I have been too busy trying to fit everything into my all too short day.
I never realized that having a child in kindergarten would really change how tired I would be. We get up at the same time, but Sydney is so tired from the stimulation of learning at school that she does not get a nap and so by the time we get home, dinner is now served at 430 and she and Bella both are in bed by 700. I have to say that time is nice because I have a whole evening ahead of me, but I feel old because I quickly follow to bed by 8. We dont have much homework, but they send home a packet of stuff for us parents to read each week and it is alot of stuff so that takes up time. Not to mention the fact that we have to help Syd memorize things and go over rules and stuff. She is loving school and thriving with it. She has a best friend named Lisi and they hold hands and eat lunch together. It is too cute.
To add to a normally exhausting week from school, Bella was diagnosed with yet another ear infection. This would be number 11 and so we saw an ENT doc today and he scheduled her for surgery for next Monday morning. She will be getting tubes and we are so glad. Maybe now she will sleep better, eat better and most of all hear and talk better. She has been sick for 2 weeks with this and a nasty cough and so we have lost a lot of sleep.
It is only Tuesday and feels like it should be the weekend. All in all though, we have some great kids and our time with them is so valued. Even with them being sick, they are still funnier than ever.
So, this blogging is MY time and it is very valued. It is short lived MY time as my youngest has poured all my shampoo and conditioner into the bath with her, my oldest is coloring a cake for a contest and my husband is watching Return of the Jedi. I take what I can get.